Partners of Sex Addicts: Grieving the Betrayal

Partners of Sex Addicts: Grieving the Betrayal

Partners of Sex Addicts: Grieving the Betrayal September 12, 2022 One of my areas of speciality is helping partners of sex addicts find hope and healing from the trauma caused by betrayal. There are five main phases to this type of trauma work. My goal, and our goal...
Why do I Struggle with Sexual Addiction Part 2

Why do I Struggle with Sexual Addiction Part 2

Why do I Struggle with Sexual Addiction Part 2? April 19, 2021 Understanding “why” is an important step towards overcoming any addiction, including sexual addiction. In Part 1 of this series, I talked about the first of two very important cycles – the...
Why Do I Struggle with Sexual Addiction (Part 1)?

Why Do I Struggle with Sexual Addiction (Part 1)?

Why Do I Struggle with Sexual Addiction (Part 1)? April 15, 2021 Why can’t I seem to control my impulses?  Why do I always give in and feel horrible afterwards? Why do I keep doing it when I know better? Why does my life feel like a scene out of Groundhog Day? Will I...
For Women: What Sex Addiction Looks Like

For Women: What Sex Addiction Looks Like

For Women: What Sex Addiction Looks Like April 5, 2021 When you hear the words ‘sex addict’, my guess is your brain automatically pictures a man. Maybe it’s a man huddled over his phone or laptop watching porn, and possibly involved in other risky behaviors like...
Why Aren’t We Having Sex?

Why Aren’t We Having Sex?

Why Aren’t We Having Sex? March 22, 2021 Note: Please be mindful that this content may not be unsuitable for younger audiences.  Why doesn’t my spouse want sex?  Why do they withdraw or get angry or make excuses when I try to discuss it with them? Is it me or them? If...
Sex Addiction: Let’s Talk About It

Sex Addiction: Let’s Talk About It

Sex Addiction: Let’s Talk About It March 16, 2021 ‘Sex addict’ is one of those terms that can make us really uncomfortable. This is especially true when it’s a label used to describe us or a loved one, like our spouse. I personally believe our discomfort comes in...