How to spot a narcissist December 4, 2018 “Narcissist” is a big buzz word right now not only in the field of psychology, but across our entire culture. When you think of the word, I bet you immediately get a mental image of someone. It might be a politician, or a...
the art of apologizing July 2, 2018 It’s not easy being in relationship. When two people are sharing their lives and space, there will be times when things don’t go smoothly. Even in the healthiest of relationships, we make mistakes. Disagreements happen. Feelings get...
When’s the last time you laughed together? May 21, 2018 Some of you who read this blog regularly are in marriage crisis and are desperate for help. This may not be the blog post for you, because when you’re in crisis it can be difficult to smile around each...
Are You Lying to Your Spouse January 29, 2018 We face a dilemma in our marriages: Do we lie and keep the peace? Or, do we share honestly and risk conflict? We’re all tempted to lie. Whether it’s a response to “Do these pants make me look big?” or “Did you remember to...
How Much Sex Should I Be Having? January 23, 2018 “My wife never wants to have sex” “In 20 years of marriage we’ve only had sex a dozen times” “My husband never seems satisfied. I’m exhausted!” “My friend tells me sex 2-3 times per week is normal for...
Too much drama in your relationship? Here is why November 28, 2017 As a marriage counselor, if there’s one common theme between the couples I work with, it would have to be how quickly and easily one or both overreacts to the other. It could be a simple eye roll that...