CAUGHT IN AN AFFAIR: CHOOSING BETWEEN YOUR SPOUSE AND YOUR AFFAIR PARTNER May 27, 2020 The day your affair was discovered will be one of those days you aren’t likely to ever forget. With the secret you worked hard to hide now out in the open, your two worlds have...
HOW TO DISCUSS AN AFFAIR August 16, 2019 I’ve written a lot about affairs. How to know. How to repair. How to re-establish trust. Today I want to focus on how to talk about an affair. When an affair is first found out, tension is high and it’s all about damage...
Re-establishing Trust After an Affair November 28, 2018 This is my last installment in my month-long Affairs Series. To catch up, you can find the first three blogs here, here, and here. For couples that have endured an affair and decide they want to rebuild their...
Dealing With Flashbacks and Obsessive Thoughts November 19, 2018 NOTE: This is the third installment of my Affair Series. You can catch up on the first two installments here and here. Curiosity and a desire to know are basic to our human nature. When an affair is...
can my marriage be saved after an affair? November 12, 2018 This is the second installment in my Affair series this month. If you missed the first one, catch up here. What do you do if you find out your spouse had an affair? How do you decide whether to try to save...
How do I know if my spouse is having an affair? November 11, 2018 Our culture today seems to feed on stories of infidelity. Our televisions and social media are constantly flooded with news of the latest scandals in Hollywood or professional sports. But the stories...