HOW TO SLOWLY DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE March 26, 2018 Tell me if this feels familiar: You cannot remember the last time you’ve had a deep conversation with your spouse about your relationship. If you can remember, the memory is not a positive one. When you think about...
Is Divorce Your New Year’s Resolution? January 22, 2018 Many of us use the start of a new year as a time to set goals for ourselves. We often call these resolutions. For some, divorce makes the resolution list. Last January CNN reported on a study of...
Don’t Let Your Therapist Talk You Into Divorce August 15, 2017 It’s unbelievable to me, but it happens. I know it happens because I hear a version of this story all too frequently when a new client finds me and it gets me angry every time. It happened again...
8 Questions to Ask Before Divorce July 25, 2017 8 Questions to Ask Before Divorce Nobody wants divorce. What we want is relief. We want an end to the pain. As a therapist, I’ve seen a lot of couples on the brink of divorce over the years. What I’ve found is that our...
How to make marriage last forever February 7, 2017 How do we make marriage last forever? There is a concept with marriage in our society that I just don’t get. It is the idea that when attraction leaves, the marriage is over. Or when you don’t feel IN love...
What Not Having Sex Does to Your Marriage January 6, 2017 Have questions?WHAT NOT HAVING SEX DOES TO YOUR MARRIAGE: FOR WOMEN WHOSE HUSBANDS WANT MORE SEX Not Having Sex A lot of couples I see in my office eventually end up sharing that they’re not having sex. Lately,...