Author’s Note: I previously wrote a post on The Art of Apologizing in which I explained common misconceptions that damage our ability to effectively apologize. One of my readers suggested a follow-up post on how to accept an apology. I thought it was a great idea and so here it is! The art of accepting […]
Read MoreIn our practice we meet as a team weekly for at least two hours. In addition to ongoing training, we discuss what’s going on in our counseling sessions. Without sharing confidential information, we describe difficult marital situations, various therapeutic approaches and the overall trends we’re seeing. That’s 14 counselors and coaches bringing decades of experience […]
Read More“Do you think we need counseling?” When folks realize you are counselor, this is a question you hear often. I suppose it’s like financial advisors being asked about the stock market and mechanics about what the noise under the hood might be. Almost without exception, I tell those that ask me: I think every couple […]
Read MoreEvery week my office gets calls from couples interested in fast tracking their therapy. Sometimes the desire is driven by location (out of state clients) or schedules (Let’s face it, most of us live fast-paced lives full of work, family and kid obligations). Other times however, the need for something other than traditional weekly therapy […]
Read MoreHave you seen these statistics? Among U.S. adults ages 50 and older, the divorce rate roughly doubled since the 1990s; among those 65 and older, the divorce rate roughly tripled. Among those who divorced in the past year, about one-third were in their prior marriage for at least 30 years; 12% were married for 40 […]
Read MoreIt’s not easy being in relationship. When two people are sharing their lives and space, there will be times when things don’t go smoothly. Even in the healthiest of relationships, we make mistakes. Disagreements happen. Feelings get hurt. We’ve all been there – you say or do something that upsets your spouse. You know you’ve […]
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