There was a very dark period in my life when I was in a whirlpool of negativity about my own marriage, and when getting out of it was the only way I could see to move forward. It’s mortifying to me now to think back to that time period, and to realize how close I […]
Read MoreI know the headline sounds like an infomercial, or maybe one of those sensational blurbs on the cover of a women’s magazine. I am trying to catch your attention as I want to share something with you I’ve seen truly transform marriages, including my own. This guidance is based on a solid, validated life-truth. If […]
Read MoreSome of you who read this blog regularly are in marriage crisis and are desperate for help. This may not be the blog post for you, because when you’re in crisis it can be difficult to smile around each other, much less share deep laughter. I have no desire to downplay what this feels like […]
Read MoreOne of the hottest topics I’ve addressed lately is sexless marriage – couples who for a variety of reasons rarely have sex, or have stopped having sex at all. There are complex reasons this happens. But right now I’m going to address one of the less complex ones. Snoring It’s something some of us chuckle […]
Read MoreI can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen honesty, or rather the lack of honesty, play out as the underlying issue in a marriage. I always ask new clients about what prompted them to come see me. This generally gives me a pretty good idea of the presenting issues in the relationship and provides […]
Read MoreChildhood experiences can impact our current daily life and our ability to have healthy functioning interpersonal relationships. They can also distort our perception of ourselves and others. When I am working with a couple, sometimes it is clear there are dynamics in the relationship stemming from experiences that predate the relationship. These pre-existing conditions often […]
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