After 25 years of marriage, two nearly grown kids, and busy, stressful jobs, we had hit a low in our relationship with each other. We didn’t talk and certainly didn’t communicate. We had quit having fun, both separately and together. It had become easier to just stop trying and with that, problems and resentments had started to grow. Both of us were having doubts about the future of our marriage although neither of us would admit it to the other. With Kim, we discovered someone who quickly and intuitively got to the heart of our problems. It wasn’t the usual “you need to learn to communicate” story. Kim helped us identify our own individual issues and challenges and showed us how those fed into the relationship. From that she helped us see the resulting behavior patterns and the cycles that followed. Kim gave us unfaltering guidance and support, made sure we stayed on track, and made sure we never “weaseled out” just because it was difficult and often painful. She gave us the right setting, taught us the right tools, and made sure that our approach with each other was always loving and respectful.
