Tag Archives: marriage therapy

When Your Husband Doesn’t Want Sex

What not having sex is doing to your marriage, part 2 Ok, ladies. You’ve asked for it and here it is. We sent out Part 1 of this topic (which focused on women not having sex), and within minutes we started receiving comments from women complaining about their husbands not wanting sex. So many people […]

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Not Having Sex? 6 Possible Reasons for a Sexless Marriage

You Are Not Having Sex. At least that is what the statistics report. Married couples are simply not having sex. A marriage is considered sexless if the couple is only having sex on average once a month or less. By some reports, 15% to 20% of marriages are sexless. It isn’t just the women who […]

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Divorce season is almost here. Don’t get caught by surprise.

January is divorce season. I know this is a harsh reality.  Right now, this is the time of year when most people are thinking of the upcoming holiday menus, shopping lists and time with family. But for my practice, it is the calm before the storm. January is our busiest time of year. Some of […]

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Emotional Intimacy: A Guy’s Perspective

How a husband can step up his game and better understand and respond to his wife The Logic Trap Logic often does not mix well with emotions.   Gentlemen, I’m sure this is not news to you if you have been married any length of time.  If you are like most men I see, you […]

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A Marriage Counselor’s Secret Confession

I’ve been married 25 years.  I’ve devoted my life and career to helping people save their marriages.  I constantly train in the latest modalities and theories to better equip my clients, which also better equips my own relationship.  I’m pro marriage and I hate divorce.  And yet…. Sometimes I fantasize about divorcing my husband. A […]

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Can I Forgive My Spouse?

Forgive my spouse? Really? If you are married, you have to learn how to forgive your spouse.  It is impossible to live with another human being for very long without someone getting hurt. But sometimes we are faced with a situation that goes far beyond the normal day-to-day grievances…like an affair. Forgiveness is tricky business. […]

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