The Blame Game: Why We Need to Stop Playing November 19, 2015 Playing the blame game is poisonous Blame is poisonous for personal growth because it allows you to keep the focus on someone else. Even worse, it forces you in a victim position because you can’t...
DIVORCE YOUR MARRIAGE NOT YOUR SPOUSE! August 3, 2014 If you aren’t happy in your marriage what have you done to fix it? If you are like most people, you have complained to your spouse. Good for you! Complaining is the appropriate first step. But what else have you...
MARRIAGE FITNESS: WHAT IS THE CORE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP? February 1, 2014 I have had too many couples married 20+ years sit on my couch with the look of hopelessness and helplessness. Once best friends and high school sweethearts, they now can barely stand to be in...
MARRIAGE FITNESS January 26, 2014 If you asked someone what he or she values most, family often ranks first or second. But if you inquire about his or her New Year’s resolutions, family does not make the top three (lose weight, stop smoking, and learn something new...