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One Man’s Marriage Advice to Women

One Man’s Marriage Advice to Women Ladies, I write to you as a man with the hope of helping you to understand how many men function in relationships, on behalf of men everywhere.  We need your patience.  We weren’t taught these relationship skills, and most likely, we have not witnessed them in action. This is new to […]

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Three Questions That Can Change Your Marriage

Think Back to Your First Years of Marriage Remember when you first met your spouse, and hours passed that seemed like seconds, and you got butterflies just thinking about him or her? Unfortunately, I have many clients sit down in my office who come in, where they just don’t have those “feelings” anymore, and their […]

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Men: The Rules of Marriage Have Changed

You’ve suddenly found yourself being told by your wife that your marriage is over.  She doesn’t love you anymore. You are stunned. You still love her very much and you thought things were fine.  Yes, you have had your arguments but you had no idea she would consider it so bad she would want to […]

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Valentine’s Day Blues

Not everyone will be celebrating romance this February 14th. A lot of the clients we work with are in relationships where one partner wants out. For the partner who wants to save the marriage, Valentine’s Day can be a lonely and painful event. If that’s you, keep reading because you are on my mind and […]

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A Marriage Counselor’s Secret Confession

I’ve been married 25 years.  I’ve devoted my life and career to helping people save their marriages.  I constantly train in the latest modalities and theories to better equip my clients, which also better equips my own relationship.  I’m pro marriage and I hate divorce.  And yet…. Sometimes I fantasize about divorcing my husband. A […]

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Bad in the Bedroom? Let’s Talk About Sex.

Ever hear the phrase “The best way to stop having sex is to get married”? Clever, but it’s not too funny if you are living it. Has your wife told you kindly (or not so kindly) that you are a bad lover?  Or maybe she doesn’t say it but you aren’t having sex very often […]

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