Not Having Sex? 6 Possible Reasons for a Sexless Marriage

You Are Not Having Sex. At least that is what the statistics report. Married couples are simply not having sex. A marriage is considered sexless if the couple is only having sex on average once a month or less. By some reports, 15% to 20% of marriages are sexless. It isn’t just the women who […]

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I Love You But…Getting Friend Zoned In Your Marriage

I love you but I’m not IN love with you. I doubt there is a marriage counselor anywhere who hasn’t heard the “I love you but…” statement more times than they could count.  Some days I think it is epidemic. In my practice, I find more women come in with this complaint than men, but […]

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When Your Spouse Wants A Divorce And You Don’t! Part 2 [An Interview]

*****There has been such a tremendous response to my original post, “Your Spouse Wants a Divorce. You Want to Stay Married. Now What?” that I decided to do a follow up. Someone asks me every day if I think there is hope for them and their marriage.  Most of the time, I try to reassure […]

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Help! I Don’t Find My Wife Attractive

Married sex is a whole different ballgame…as if sex wasn’t complicated enough. Nothing makes a woman feel less feminine than hearing her husband doesn’t find her desirable any longer. In my practice, I’ve seen many men who begin therapy because they are worried about not being attracted to their wives any more. It is certainly […]

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