When a Quiet Crisis Sneaks into your Marriage This is the latest post in my Marriage Crisis series. Catch up here. You feel it. Something is creeping in. You roll over one morning and a thought hits you: I love him but I’m not in love with him/her anymore. Did I marry the wrong person?? […]
Read MoreShort answer – It depends. I know it sounds like I’m sitting on the fence unwilling to commit, but hang with me – there’s good reason for my waffling. Your first consideration should be the kids Remember these facts: Your children’s emotional boundaries are still developing. To them it can feel like they’re in the […]
Read MoreBack in the early years of my marriage, I wanted my spouse to change. Not everything, just a few things that drove me crazy. They say you can’t change others and while technically, that is true, you might be surprised to find you have more power than you think to change other people. Here is the secret: […]
Read MoreDealing With MILs – Infographic. When you get married to your partner, you inherit a new extension to your family in the form of your in-laws. For the majority, this is a wonderful experience and a welcome addition to your life. You are gaining a wider family unit, one that will care for you hugely […]
Read More8 Questions to Ask Before Divorce Nobody wants divorce. What we want is relief. We want an end to the pain. As a therapist, I’ve seen a lot of couples on the brink of divorce over the years. What I’ve found is that our problem-solving ability gets very limited when we are unhappy in our […]
Read MoreHow do we make marriage last forever? There is a concept with marriage in our society that I just don’t get. It is the idea that when attraction leaves, the marriage is over. Or when you don’t feel IN love anymore, it is time to move on. This seems crazy to me. […]
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