What Does Real Love Look Like?

I spend a lot of time teaching clients that focusing on your partner’s negative traits will only bring more misery and unhappiness. Conversely, focusing on his/her positives will bring more satisfaction and joy. Most marriage counselors know this simple fact because we are taught it. I know it because I lived it.  For years, I […]

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How to Discuss an Affair

I’ve written a lot about affairs. How to know. How to repair. How to re-establish trust. Today I want to focus on how to talk about an affair. When an affair is first found out, tension is high and it’s all about damage control. During this time the betrayed partner wants to know the details and will often […]

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