All posts by Dan Umphress

Friendship in Marriage: The Recipe for Reconnection

A post from Dan Umphress In my work as a Marriage Coach, I talk every week with people who have heard from their spouse some variation of “I love you, but I’m not in love with you anymore. I want a divorce.”   I am not writing to address the pain and shock of hearing […]

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Emotional Intimacy: A Guy’s Perspective

How a husband can step up his game and better understand and respond to his wife The Logic Trap Logic often does not mix well with emotions.   Gentlemen, I’m sure this is not news to you if you have been married any length of time.  If you are like most men I see, you […]

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One Man’s Marriage Advice to Women

One Man’s Marriage Advice to Women Ladies, I write to you as a man with the hope of helping you to understand how many men function in relationships, on behalf of men everywhere.  We need your patience.  We weren’t taught these relationship skills, and most likely, we have not witnessed them in action. This is new to […]

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Men: The Rules of Marriage Have Changed

You’ve suddenly found yourself being told by your wife that your marriage is over.  She doesn’t love you anymore. You are stunned. You still love her very much and you thought things were fine.  Yes, you have had your arguments but you had no idea she would consider it so bad she would want to […]

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