Kim Bowen, LPC & Founder/CEO of The Marriage Place
Kim opened The Marriage Place in Richardson, Texas in 2013 because she has a heart for those who feel hopelessly unhappy and stuck in their marriages. Kim was the one who wanted out of her marriage and for years she built up resentment and anger at her spouse. To read more of her story click here.
Kim knows from experience how having a bad marriage counselor can hurt your chances for survival so she has spent years training with the top experts in the marriage counseling field and has brought that training back to her team members. The Marriage Place has become known for its exceptional work with even the toughest of cases. This is the place where other therapists refer their clients when they can’t do anything more with them. We are proud of that reputation and we are here to help you have a more satisfying, loving relationship.
Many people contact us and want to know if we can work with them even though they live in another state or country. To help reach this long distance population we offer coaching over phone or Skype. Please check out our coaching division here for more information on how to work with us even if you don’t live in the Dallas area.
Susan Rutledge, LPC
Do you have young kids at home that demand so much of you? Or have your kids left the nest and you realize your spouse feels more like a roommate than a lover? If you have put all your time and energy into being a good parent, you are probably noticing your marriage could use some TLC. You need to call Susan! Married for over 30 years, Susan is mom to four sons so she knows first-hand how exhausting and chaotic home life can be. She also knows how to help you reconnect with your spouse in ways that will rejuvenate you and give you more energy to handle the busy life you already have.
Susan’s work also focuses on clients struggling to cope, heal and move on after infidelity rocks the foundation of their relationship. She helps couples regain their footing after the initial trauma of discovery, explore what, if anything, made the relationship vulnerable to the affair (either physical or emotional), and then determine the best path for moving forward. Some research estimates that approximately 60-75% of couples faced with infidelity decide to stay married. Let Susan help you build a relationship that is stronger than it ever was before.
Eric Tooley, LPC Intern & Certified Pastoral Sexual Addiction Specialist
Eric values the institute of marriage and he strongly believes in fighting for your marriage rather than giving up. Although he has been happily married for the past 15 years, Eric’s first marriage ended in divorce. After his training with The Marriage Place, he realizes he chose all the wrong strategies in trying to save it. He specializes in helping individuals, couples and families who are dealing with pornography issues. For more than twenty years, he has led workshops and given presentations all over the country on healthy sexuality. Most of all, he has a heart for helping people make good choices in all areas of their lives.
Eric has a master’s degree in professional counseling. He is an ordained minister and can do pastoral counseling as well as life coaching from either a faith-based or secular approach.
Sam John, LPC
Sam has a passion for marriage. He knows how it feels when one or both individuals want to walk away from a relationship because it seems hopeless. His passion is fueled from his personal struggles in the early years of his own marriage. When asked why he fights for marriages he stated “I understand the pain and disappointments that come when a couple’s expectations of their marriage aren’t being met. I also know, firsthand, how things can change for the better if you are willing to look at yourself in the mirror, own up to your own part in the marriage, and be willing to love your spouse and the marriage in a different way.”
Sam’s insight and passion motivated him to pursue his career in counseling. Whether you’re struggling to communicate your heart to your mate, considering divorce, constantly fighting and engaging in verbal warfare, falling out of love or just needing some guidance to make a good relationship a better one, Sam wants to be your advocate and guide for change. The possibilities for your relationship are endless if you decide to try something different. Are you ready to stop doing what is not working and find a way to transform your current situation to a new place of love, understanding and hope? Then Sam is your guy!
Patty Evans, LPC
Couples go to marriage counseling because they want to make things better. But sometimes a couple has to learn to deal with deeper issues that can have an adverse effect on a marriage, like addiction, emotional trauma or physical abuse. If this sounds like your situation, Patty can show you how you can recapture friendship and love even in the most difficult marriages. Patty is trained in Developmental Needs Meeting Strategy (DNMS), an approach designed specifically to help people overcome the damaging effects of trauma.
As your counselor, Patty travels alongside you, guiding your steps, helping you discover what is possible for your marriage. Patty’s formal training, mentoring, and life experiences from 31 years of marriage will empower you to make whatever changes are necessary to connect deeply with yourself and your spouse.
David J. Bryan, M.A., LPC Intern
Marriage is always a work in progress, though the journey for each of us has its ups and downs. Sometimes it’s a casual walk hand-in-hand and sometimes it’s a grueling grind through the mud. David has experienced both of these extremes in his own 22-year marriage and has compassion and wisdom for those who are disillusioned, disconnected and questioning. In a relationship that was deeply impacted by childhood abuse, trauma, addiction and dysfunction, David and his wife learned to restore intimacy and communication through their own on-going efforts to find health and healing. A catalyst for change in the family dynamic was the diagnosis of his oldest son with High Functioning Autism (otherwise known as Asperger’s Syndrome), OCD and ADD. After years of living in an empty relationship, he now understands the loneliness and pain of this prison as well as the keys to freedom and a fulfilling marriage.
Whether it is confronting personal demons such as trauma or addiction, improving your connection with your spouse or rescuing your marriage from the brink of divorce, David can help you find solutions and hope. He can teach and equip you to effectively fight for transformation in your marriage. Marriage can be far more than just conflict, more than feeling criticized daily, more than roommates sharing a home, more than feeling emotionally abandoned, more than feeling trapped and destined for marital misery. If you want to fight for something more and discover a purpose and passion in your marriage, David would be privileged to be your guide on this journey.
Tiffany Uzor, Counselor Intern.
Do you feel disconnected from your spouse? Has your relationship taken a back seat to careers, child rearing, or caring for aging parents? If your relationship is suffering from neglect and you find yourself in a monotonous routine reach out to Tiffany! Married for over 15 years and mother of three boys, Tiffany knows how challenging balancing home, personal aspirations, and work life can be. Tiffany believes that communication is one of the most important aspects of a relationship and yet one of the hardest. Tiffany will help you face these challenges and come to solutions that work best for your relationship.
Tiffany is also passionate about working with multicultural couples, intra-ethnic couples. She married someone outside of her culture and it has made her sensitive to the challenges that come from combining two worlds under one roof. Tiffany knows from experience that you can create a home that nurtures both cultures in a way that is uniquely your own. If you are tired of feeling lost in your marriage, not heard or respected, Tiffany would love to work with you and help you find your way back together.